Giving advice to best friend? I
The European elections are coming. Tim already knows who he’ll vote for and wants his party to succeed. He uses social media to stay informed. His friend Ben, voting for the first time, also uses social media for political info, as TV is too complex and he dislikes reading news articles. Many parties and politicians post there, and Ben follows them. When they meet in person, Ben tells Tim he’s still unsure who to vote for.
The European elections are coming. Tim, who is fairly knowledgeable about politics, already knows who he’ll vote for and wants his party to succeed. His best friend Ben, however, voting for the first time, is unsure who to vote for. From their previous talks the two friends know that their political views differ substantially, and thus they haven't talked about voting. One day, when they meet in person, Ben tells Tim he still hasn't voted, because he has gotten overwhelmed with the amount of information and possible choices. Then Ben says: "This is all just so much that I might not even vote."
What would you do in Tim’s place?
- 1. I should not influence Ben’s opinion when it comes to the election, especially because he didn't ask for my help. It is his right to vote for any party he desires or not vote at all. Interfering with that right would be unethical.
- 2. It is better for society if more people participate in it. Thus, I would encourage Ben to vote, even if his vote goes against mine.
- 3. Since Ben is still undecided, he might as well choose my party, because I have made my choice rationally. I tell this to Ben and try to explain the benefits of choosing my party over the others. Hopefully, that would influence Ben to vote for my party.
- 4. I would ask Ben if he wanted help with deciding. If he says "yes" I would help him map out his preferences, and do a quick analysis on what parties are most suited for him. I would also tell him that the choice he eventually makes has no impact on our relationship.
- 5. I know that politics and elections can be a bit hard to navigate at first. Thus I would provide general informative content that can help Ben understand a bit better. I would also tell Ben that in the end it is ok if he doesn’t vote.